• Jealously can interfere with your personal vision and obstruct your goals

    Jealousy is the Enemy of Your Personal Vision

    Jealousy, it’s one of my least favorite emotions, an invasive variation of anger and anxiety. We’ve all felt it at one time or another. Jealous of someone’s personal possessions, of someone’s position of authority, or of someone’s knowledge. We live in a consumer-driven and highly competitive society, it could almost feel natural to feel jealous. There is hope. I think jealousy can be controlled and converted to motivation. As with anything worth doing, it’ll take a little time and discipline but it’s possible. Jealousy versus your personal vision “Learning how to think really means learning how to exercise some control over how and what you think. It means being conscious…

  • Self-imposed stress can be a distraction to our personal vision

    How to Deal with Self-Imposed Pressure

    As I was writing about clearing my mind of mental clutter it starting thinking about self-imposed pressure. We put a lot of pressure on ourselves to achieve goals that might not have any real meaning for us. We play over in my minds things we should have done, the places we should visit, how we should look. This is a lot of stress we put on ourselves, why do we do it? Is it to appear or feel normal? For me, it’s time to stop putting pressure on myself. It’s time to rely on a vision for myself and how I want my life to be. Sources of self-imposed pressure…

  • making the right goals depends on your personal vision
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    How to Make the Right Goals

    I’ve been spending a lot of time in the past few weeks thinking about goals.  Thinking about how goals help me work on my personal vision. Sometimes I think about this so often that it feels like setting goals seems more like a hobby. I am a supporter of setting goals yet I think goals are misused. The focus on goals, I think, can get in the way of seeing the bigger picture. I want to expand on the post I wrote around creating a personal vision. In that post, I focused on why a personal vision is important so now I want to focus on how the right goals…

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    Avoiding the “Someday” Trap

    Procrastination leading to regret Facing a new year reminds me of all the things I want to do someday and all the things I wanted to do but haven’t done. The procrastination sets in; someday never seems to be today. Someday may never come For me, the concept of someday becoming a daydreaming and dangerous word.  We live our lives thinking there’s always more time. Someday assumes a distant future with possibilities, this can be a distraction from what’s happening here and now.  Someday makes me lose focus on my goals as I work towards my personal vision. Don’t think, just do So in this new year, I want to…